Virginia T. Holeman |
July 11, 2023 |
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God created us with a hard-wired capacity to sense and respond to the emotions of others
Dr. Virginia Holeman |
February 14, 2023 |
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What is an “emotion?” Are emotions and feelings synonyms?
Dr. Virginia Holeman |
November 8, 2022 |
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Gratitude has been the focus of social science research for well over a decade.
Virginia Holeman |
August 17, 2022 |
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Self-control assists ministry leaders to manage difficult conversations or confrontations with greater emotional calm.
Dr. Virginia Holeman |
May 19, 2022 |
Blog Education & Clergy Development Thrive in 5
You have heard of IQ. Have you also heard of EQ?
Dr. Virginia Holeman |
March 8, 2022 |
Blog Education & Clergy Development Thrive in 5
Empathy is an important leadership skill for pastors.
Dr. Virginia Holeman |
November 23, 2021 |
Blog Education & Clergy Development Thrive in 5
Managing Your Negative Emotions While most church leaders prefer to avoid negative emotions such as distress, fear, anxiety, etc., all church leaders will experience a variety of negative emotions at some point. Negative emotions are our survival brain’s early warning...
Dr. Virginia Holeman |
June 8, 2021 |
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“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up” (Gal. 6:9). Compassion fatigue is “weariness in doing good.”
Dr. Virginia Holeman |
March 17, 2021 |
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As a pastor, If you have discovered that your motivation has taken a vacation and left you behind, you are not alone.
Dr. Virginia Holeman |
December 28, 2020 |
Blog Education & Clergy Development Thrive in 5
How would you rate your emotional wellness?
Dr. Virginia Holeman |
September 29, 2020 |
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Since March 2020 the world in which we live feels like a dangerous place. For some of us, that sense of danger is actually real. For others of us, the sense of danger is more in our nonconscious perception of threat.
Dr. Virginia Holeman |
July 7, 2020 |
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The COVID-19 virus has changed the way we “do life” and “do church” so that we are simultaneously absent and present.
Dr. Virginia Holeman |
April 14, 2020 |
Blog Thriving Clergy Education & Clergy Development Thrive in 5
All of us will face moments when we must exercise hope. Hope researchers observe that hope is active, not passive. “High hopers” exert whatever degree of control they have to reach that for which they hope.
Dr. Virginia Holeman |
January 21, 2020 |
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Cultivating a healthier emotional life.
Dr. Virginia Holeman |
October 24, 2019 |
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With the holidays just around the corner, pastors are entering one of their busiest seasons….
Dr. Virginia Holeman |
July 2, 2019 |
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Self-justification
Dr. Virginia Holeman |
April 17, 2019 |
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Peacefulness through Prayer
Dr. David Higle |
March 15, 2019 |
Blog Education & Clergy Development Thrive in 5
As a pastor, you know how important your emotional vitality is to ministry. Take 5 minutes to consider the following suggestions of how you can establish and maintain boundaries to protect your own emotional health and sense of well-being.
Dave Higle |
March 14, 2019 |
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Pastoral ministry requires the ability to withstand the emotional stresses of life and be “present” and empathetic to others.
Dr. Virginia Holeman |
November 27, 2018 |
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If you have read A.A. Milne’s Winnie the Pooh, are you an Eeyore or a Tigger? “Eeyores” are your typical pessimists. Life is one disappointment after another. Positive things are never as good as imagined. Neutral things are worse than expected. Negative things...
Dr. Virginia Holeman |
May 9, 2018 |
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How do you feel about the person you are with when you are all alone? This is when your capacity for self-loathing or self-liking reveals itself. The odds are good that you may experience either attitude about your “self” at one time or another. As a pastor,...
Dave Higle |
May 27, 2017 |
Thriving Clergy Education & Clergy Development Thrive in 5
As a pastor, you know how important your emotional vitality is to ministry. Pastoral ministry requires the ability to withstand the emotional stresses of life and be “present” and empathetic to others. Emotional vitality also includes resilience, the...
Dave Higle |
May 27, 2017 |
Thriving Clergy Education & Clergy Development Thrive in 5
As a pastor, you know how important your emotional vitality is to ministry. The pastoral vocation is unique in nature compared to all other helping professions. Ministry is not a 9-5 job; insisting on “normal hours” will lead only to frustration for you...